I wore the same pair of jeans three days last week.
On Monday, I paired my favorite high-waisted, black Naked & Famous skinny jeans with a button-up shirt and Nike dunks. Two days later, I wore them out for drinks with gray heels and a white sequined top (an after-the-holidays steal from Madewell), and that Friday with a blazer and concert tee.
At no point did I hear, “Um, Megan…didn’t you just wear those jeans?”
Which really shouldn’t be so surprising. As much as we all tend to assume the world revolves around us (and our sublime wardrobe choices), no one actually thinks about what you’re wearing as much as you do.
That’s why building a men’s capsule wardrobe is such a good idea.
I noticed this phenomenon of fewer, but better clothes when I lived in the south of France my junior year of college. Mes amis français always looked super chic, though I knew none of them had many beaucoup euros to spend on clothes.
One friend, Henri, would bust out this très cool blazer for class..maybe he’d wear it on Tuesday, and again on Thursday, but always in different outfit combinations. Marietta had a pair of suede boots that she paired with jeans, skirts, and dresses alike.
The lesson from my too cool for école pals? That a wardrobe that repeats doesn’t have to be a bad thing. That if you want to wear that blue oxford shirt twice in one week—once under a sweater with chinos, once with jeans and sneakers—go for it.
Women will notice that you look put together, not that you’re repeating basics.
This doesn’t mean I’m letting you off the hook for putting thought and care into your outfits each day, quite the opposite, really. It’s better to repeat clothes in your closet—really great, quality clothes that you know you look and feel great in—rather than rack your brain (and bust your budget) in order to pull together a totally new outfit each day of the week.
Get started with these building blocks of a men’s capsule wardrobe:
SG Says: Hold onto your butts, because for almost all of these men’s capsule wardrobe items, we’re going to link to other stories we’ve already done on Style Girlfriend about the oh-my-god mission critical importance of having this item in your style rotation already.
That’s the nice thing about capsule wardrobes; they really are just the essentials, so you probably already own at least a few of the items on this list. Like an Oxford shirt, which looks good dressed up and dressed down, with chinos and with jeans.
SG Says: By now you know how everyone on the team here feels about a henley. If you haven’t yet worn yours in new and interesting ways (like pairing it with a suit!), I highly recommend it. You’ll be surprised by how versatile this wardrobe workhorse can be.
SG Says: Obviously you need (and probably have) plenty of jeans. But it’s worth doing a Mari Kondo-style purge of your denim drawer. There could be a pair or two that aren’t doing you any favors in the style department. You know the ones. You’ve had them since college, and they’re a little worn out, a little faded. And while they’re probably comfy as hell, you don’t look (and therefore don’t feel) your best in them.
SG Says: You can get a lot of mileage out of a well-fitting navy sport coat. If you already own one, but it doesn’t fit great, consider taking it to the tailor before starting from zero. They might be able to tweak it here and there for a better fit that practically feels MTM.
6. Khaki chinos
If you’re starting from scratch, a pair of chinos in a khaki color is the way to go. This color is easy to find from most brands, and the overall effect is a neutral building block for whatever kind of outfit you decide to wear that day.
7. Grey crewneck sweatshirt
SG Says: Guys, stripes are cool! Give in already, oui oui?!
SG Says: Aaand, the suit you’ll wear to that “headed to court then a funeral” day.
10. White sneakers
SG Says: Who can’t use new white sneakers? No one can’t…that’s who!
Feeling overwhelmed by the thought of building a men’s capsule wardrobe?
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